Hello world...the last few weeks i've been evaluating what it means to "Date" and what i've discovered has really disgusted me. Ladies and Men, stop sweating the person who has given you NO REASON to even care about them. What is it about us that wants to believe what isn't there and ignore the obvious? I can't tell you how many excuses I've heard us make on why he/she didn't call us back. "He works the late shift so I only talk to him once a week." If he cared about you, he would call you during the day when you're on lunch to say "Hey, thinking about you. Wanted to make sure you had a great day." Or what about this one, "She just got out of a bad relationship a few years ago so she just wants to be friends." Dude, ask yourself this, how long does it take you to know whether or not you LIKE someone? Yep, that's what I thought, not very long. Almost instantly when you have a conversation with someone, you can know if this person makes you smile, or looks you in the eyes when they're talking or remembers what you say. I mean it's just not that difficult.

So with that being said, let the duds go! Chuck the dueces to all the people that have excuses on why they can't call you, spend time with you, make time for you, see you, remember things that are important to you. And trust me, when someone likes and cares about you they won't just text you. THEY WILL CALL. You can't base a relationship on text messages! Someone that cares about you will never INTENTIONALLY make you cry, and if they make you cry and aren't there to console you and help fix what they did wrong, I promise they don't care about YOU. With that being said, hold your head up. I hope someone will delete some numbers after reading this. I know I did....Check out Beyonce's new video that drives this point home. You're the best they never had. Peace.